So I made some resolutions this New Year's Eve. Most people do. I however, usually give up on my resolutions faster than anyone else I know! One of my resolutions this year was to update my blog on a weekly basis....since today is the 12th and this is the first post I've made in a few months, well, you can see I'm not starting off on that resolution so well......
Anyhow, also on my list of resolutions for the year were the usual suspects - lose weight, get in shape, save money, declutter the house, etc. The difference between this year & other years is that I actually have plans to achieve all of those goals!
First - save money. I work part-time. VERY part-time but that's OK because I'm really only responsible for 2 bills - my phone (which is prepaid) and my credit card. All of my other money is mine to do with as I choose. However, I do most of the grocery/household shopping here too. I find that each time I go out to the store to buy the groceries, we end up with a bunch of stuff that wasn't on the list or stuff that ends up sitting in the cupboard for months & months & never gets used. For example, I found a recipe this past summer for tuna salad that called for pineapple. I like pineapple so I figured that instead of buying just one can of pineapple, I would buy a box of cans. Guess what? That box full of cans of pineapple is still sitting in the lazy susan...unopened. Yep, that's the kind of waste that I am talking about. My Aunt Cathy did this challenge called "30 Days of Nothing" back in November...basically (and I'm REALLLY summing it up here), she was able to go 30 Days without purchasing/buying/spending money on stuff that wasn't absolutely essential. Her 30 day journey really inspired me and I decided to try it this month. So far, I'm not doing so hot. I haven't exactly spent money.....but I've spent gift cards. Which to me is the same thing. I may still have the same amount of $$ in my bank account, but the consumerism is still there for me. Me thinks that I will give this challenge another shot starting in February. There is a lot that can be learned about what we find to be "essential" when we do without it.
Secondly - lose weight/get in shape. This has become a yearly challenge for me. It seems that I am one of those folks who are on the constant weight-coaster. I go up, I go down, I go farther up, I go not quite as far down....It's a very dangerous cycle to be on. Anyhow, the mom's group that I am a part of decided to do a "Biggest Loser" challenge this year and I am participating. I have reached my heaviest weight...even heavier than I was when I was full-term with Douglas! But instead of going "balls to the wall" and trying to tackle everything at once (drink water, eat healthy, exercise, etc., etc.), I decided to do things in phases. I have confidence that I will be able to handle things better if I do it one step at a time - thanks to Shannon for giving me that advice! In any case, the first step I decided on was to get in the habit of drinking water. Mostly, I drink coffee, soda, juice, soda, milk, soda....and NO water. So....for an entire week, I kept myself drinking one or two cups of coffee each morning and water for the rest of the day. And guess what happened! I lost 5 pounds! Just knowing that I made one little change and it caused the numbers on the scale to go down was quite encouraging for me! I also had an epiphany the other night. There was some commercial on - I forget now what it was for...maybe Activia yogurt or something - and the lady in the commercial made a comment along the lines of "I need to take care of myself." This of course got some thoughts running through my head that started with, "Well isn't THAT selfish!"....but as I thought on this line more & more, I came to a lightbulb moment. If I am unable to care for myself, then how on earth will I be able to care for my son or my husband? If I can't treat myself like I am a decent human being by eating right and using my body by exercising, then how can I expect that my son will grow up to be able to take care of himself? I know that I have been placed here to be an example & a leader & an instructor for Douglas. By taking care of myself - getting myself into shape, eating healthy foods, eating proper portion sizes - then I am being an excellent example for Douglas too. In years past, thoughts like this would have depressed me but when I was thinking on this the other night, I became very encouraged & excited! I realized that I can do this - I can take the time & put in the effort to take care of this body that I have and in doing so, I will be an better example for my son! Yippeeee!!! :-)
Thirdly - decluttering the house. Allen & I are young and we haven't been married all that long so you wouldn't think that we would have clutter....oh, but we do! Stuff seems to just pile up around here. Every room in this house - bathrooms included! - has amassed clutter. Stuff that just sits there for months & months & in some cases, YEARS, and we never use it, move it, touch it. So, I decided that this year, I am going to declutter this house. I don't want to end up on a show like "Hoarders" or "Clean House". I want to feel comfortable having people come to visit and not worry about how badly they are judging me for my messy house. So, I started in the kitchen. We got LOTS of new Rubbermaid storage containers for Christmas (THANK GOODNESS!) so I pulled out all of the old "tupperware" containers and put them in a box to donate to Goodwill. Then I realized that we have an extra set of silverware - the silverware that Allen had prior to us getting married. It has been in a plastic bag stuffed in a cupboard for almost 3 years now. I put IT in the box for Goodwill. Then I realized that we also have an extra set of pots & pans that we can no longer use. A little over a year ago, when we redid the kitchen, we got an induction cooktop which requires our pots & pans & anything we use on it to be magnetic. Well, the teflon pans are not magnetic....but they have been sitting in the cabinet taking up space. Sooooo....they got pulled out & will be donated too. Let me tell you, doing just that little bit in one room was quite liberating. It was like each item that I put into the donation box took a little bit of weight off my shoulders and made me feel just a little bit better about our house! Keep it up & soon enough, I will be hosting parties here! Well, probably not, but you see what I mean.
So that is my update for right now. The New Year has started and life is moving along with it. I'll keep you posted on how things progress!